Sunday, April 19, 2009

Of a separation ...

On a sad note.. last 2 weeks I heard a shocking news from a dear dear friend that she was being divorced by her husband of 8 years. They seemed to me the most perfect couple. The reason of the divorce, the most stupidest reason I've ever heard... she's the barrier of his success. Looks like this guy has never heard of the phrase "behind every successful man, there's a woman".. the woman who's supposed to be the pillar of his success. After all, what is the success for if it's not for your woman, for your children. Really I don't get it! To me it's just an excuse to marry another woman.. which is very true in this case.

Marriage is all about loving, sharing, compromising and sacrificing. If you are not willing to have all that, you are in for trouble sooner or later.

Sometimes the reality of life sucks. Then again it depends on how you drive your life through .. it's a journey... not really a destination. The only destination is the afterlife.. life is just a transit to the afterlife.

4 comments:

cayoi said...

aku ada komen yg sgt peribadi tp bimbang disalah tafsirkan...nantilah bila dah jumpa ayat yg sesuai aku komen semula ya..

Mommy dearie said...

no prob. Kes2 ni mmg sgt sensitif but i nak juga tulis cos geram. Men these days think they can do whatever they want. Marriage is no longer honored the way it shoould.

Mentari, Hujan dan Pelangi said...

I guess some women also think they can do whatever they like coz they earn their own money. They forget that wife is to assist husband, not to lead husband. Unless their husband are really dungus.

Mommy dearie said...

MHP, Well I do agree with you.. in some cases ya. In this particular case.. I don't think so! And I think if the men really play theirl roles right.. they will not allow their wives lead them no matter how much she earns. It's about knowing your responsibilities.